12.26.09
IUI by the Numbers
3 — hours driven in blizzard-like conditions to get to and from clinic for IUI
1 — lousy little follicle
5.75 million — lousy sperm
3 — number of times I’ve been made to feel like an inconvenience by a particular nurse
2 — number of times said nurse has changed my double IUI to a single
1 — complete meltdown to on-call nurse today due to bad numbers leading to…
1 — giant complaint issued against nurse who keeps screwing with my fertility treatments
15 — number of times I’ve cried in the past 5 hours
1 — very sad, angry, and disappointed Erin
I’m sorry things are so sucky. I really hope the nurse is reprimanded. My fingers are crossed and prayers have been said that this is the cycle.
By Nic on 12.26.09 2:01 pm | Permalink
*hugs* I am so sorry. I hope something happens in response to your complaint.
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By Low Fat Lady on 12.26.09 2:12 pm | Permalink
Oh man… Erin I am sorry things are so tough for you right now…and I am glad you are making a complaint.. this journey is too important to be messed with.
By Em on 12.26.09 2:17 pm | Permalink
Add me to those hoping something happens in response to your complaint. That nurse sounds horrible.
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By Lisa on 12.26.09 2:50 pm | Permalink
What a day–you deserve way better than that nurse. They should have WAY more sensitive, helpful people ready. Is this the same one who was jumbling your appointments early on too?
Good luck.
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By Elizabeth on 12.26.09 2:54 pm | Permalink
15 – times you’ve cried in the past 5 hours?!? NO my poor Erin!!!! I wish I were closer to you so I could hug and cuddle and smooth you even just the slightest little bit…
By Rachie on 12.26.09 3:26 pm | Permalink
Oh, that sounds awful. I’m sorry – hopefully your complaint will encourage some changes in the nursing staff!
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By APlusB on 12.26.09 3:28 pm | Permalink
Ew! What’s with that nurse? Kick her in the balls!
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By Britt on 12.26.09 3:44 pm | Permalink
I’m sorry. Thinking of you. x
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By Bluebelle on 12.26.09 5:38 pm | Permalink
*hugs*
Here’s to hoping that nurse gets put in her place.
Thinking of you in NC!
By Beth on 12.26.09 6:13 pm | Permalink
So did the IUI not happen? or definitely not work? Or are you just being pessimistic? That would suck to go all the way out there to have it have 0 chance of working.
By Ashley on 12.26.09 6:14 pm | Permalink
boo to the max *hugs* i hope this becomes 1 baby and 1 fired nurse
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By michelle on 12.26.09 7:33 pm | Permalink
Boo. I’m sorry
I hate to hear that nurses are so mean to you because my mom is a nurse, and I know she doesn’t treat her patients the way you are being treated.
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By Jessica on 12.26.09 7:38 pm | Permalink
If that nurse is bitching about you having your IUIs on holidays, tell her to fuck off, from me. She is working, at HER JOB. And getting paid a hell of a lot to work on a holiday. Smile and be sympathetic, for Christ sakes (sorry Jesus!).
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By barbetti on 12.26.09 10:54 pm | Permalink
**hugs and prayers to you**
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By Classroom Confessions on 12.26.09 11:20 pm | Permalink
Huge hugs to you, Erin! I’m keeping you in my thoughts…
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By Phil on 12.27.09 12:19 am | Permalink
I’ll help you take that nurse down. She has been making me mad too!
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By Stephanie on 12.27.09 8:08 am | Permalink
Stupid nurse. She sounds like an awful person. So did you issue a complaint to someone about her? I hope you did because she needs to be fired! Where’s the compassion? Ugh.
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By Stephany on 12.27.09 11:34 am | Permalink
Seriously, if that nurse wants to work so badly in that particular “business” then they need to move on to a new facility…some other sort of environment. GAH. Doesn’t she realize what you’re going through!?
By Mel on 12.27.09 6:02 pm | Permalink
Oooh that sounds so rough. I’m sorry!
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By Erin on 12.27.09 7:46 pm | Permalink
Gosh, what a nightmare. So sorry
Erin, I don’t think I ever thanked you for the sweet Christmas card. Thank you so much! You are the sweetest.
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By michelle woo on 12.27.09 10:44 pm | Permalink
As if you don’t have enough to deal with, mean nurses are so not acceptable.
If you need me to don my all black clothes + sunglasses and come up there to yell at these people, I’m there.
Sending you love and hugs. You’re a brave, strong woman.
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By Nora on 12.28.09 10:05 pm | Permalink
I’m so sorry that this IUI didn’t go well and the horrible nurse is unacceptable. I’m thinking of you and hoping that this turns out to be your cycle. Hugs.
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By the state that i am in » New Year, New Plan on 01.18.10 8:05 am | Permalink
Wow! I can’t even imagine how angry you must be with the nurse! I hope the complaint gets addressed and I hope maybe this means that a new nurse handling things the right way will mean an easier process.
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By Allie on 01.18.10 8:42 am | Permalink